Tuesday, January 31, 2012

Has your child ever been accused of calling another child mean names?

Mine has and I also saw her purposely hit another child right in the face and show zero remorse. My daughter is 7. I am very upset over this b/c I never want my child to be a bully or be mean. Do all kids go thru this? She is the youngest on her gymnastics team and the older girls sometimes pick on her. Could this be causing her to in turn pick on others? Please help.Has your child ever been accused of calling another child mean names?
i have a brother who is almost the same way. but its best to let them understand that violence doesn't always solve everything. sometimes, its best to talk to her to see what is going on. it also could be that your child is trying to stick up for herself and show that she isn't going to be picked on and let them get away with it. if you don't like the way she is handling herself, then sit down with her and talk to her about different ways of handling being picked on.Has your child ever been accused of calling another child mean names?
Being bullied creates anger, she's taking her anger out on others. At that age, that type of anger is foreign to them. Have a calm, heart to heart w/her. Explain unfairness of what she's doing. Give her an outlet, go to thrift store, find a tennis racket type thing, have her beat on her bed when she gets that angry. You might consider taking her out that gymnastic class and put her in another.

Good luck!Has your child ever been accused of calling another child mean names?
Oh hun this is such a worrying time but its normal for kids to act out of character when something is bothering them. Your child isnt a bully she is just obviously upset and you need to talk to her. Children deal with emotions differently some become quiet and withdrawn and others lash out. I think she will be fine when you tell her that its not the way to deal with others and maybe have a quiet word with the gym teacher about the older girls. Best of luck

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