I called my wife mean names in an argument today, is that abuse?

The "C" word, the "B" word, and liberal use of the "F" word in front of those two other words.





Is that abusive, or is that just an arguement?|||That's a form of verbal abuse or emotional abuse. Usually this will stem from your own need to be spiteful. So while being hurt or in a situation where you feel trapped you probably throw words out there to attack back. Are you naturally insecure as well? On the other hand did you walk in and find her cheating on you? Because in that situation I'm sure those words definitely would have been appropriate. :)|||It is abuse during an argument I know society has become desensitized to using filthy and foul language present company included but it is wrong and it sets up feelings of resentment. Your wife was probably extremely hurt that you could ever call her a F ing B or a C u n t. You need to apologize and try to be more considerate ESPECIALLY when your angry LEARN TO WALK AWAY AND COOL OFF. If it were me I would and turned around and called you a wet pussy.|||It's abusive. You will argue a lot over the course of a lifetime in marriage; it's necessary and healthy (when you do it properly [read "productively]), but when you say hurtful and demeaning things to your chosen life-partner, you destroy the very relationship you work so hard to build. Attack behavior, attack a position, and aggressively argue your case whenever it's warranted, but never attack the person. You can't unring a bell, but try to run some damage control. Good luck.|||It sound like an inside incident. She may be furious and heart broken about it but, technically it is a minor case of verbal abuse. If it continues then you too are in serious trouble. Not to sound sexist but as a male she can hem you a$$ good for that. So, It's not time to get off of Yahoo and do some serious damage control. Apologies and mean it. And talk it out calmly. And from one male to another one. When you argue or debate with your woman the best thing you can do is show no emotion to what she says. Women hate that. Strategy my brotha strategy!|||its not cool to say things like that, technically it is abuse. i know i use to say those sorts of things in the past, know i just take my space and let things cool down. its never going to resolve your problems when your at each other. its best to walk away and cool down so you dont drop the f yous which are only going to lead to hurt feelings. hope this helps man good luck.|||It hurts and if you're doing it frequently it could easily be called abuse. A one time or super rare instance? Not so much. When she wises up and calls you a flat faced c0ksucking punk azz bit(h, you might learn to cool it with the names. It's just not nice.|||'abuse' is anything the woman doesnt like.|||I'm preety sure it is not abuse. Im thinking you think its mental abuse but im preety sure that mental abuse is threatning her. Its just a fight...|||Abuse|||it's mental abuse.|||Just don't call her that dude, thats just being a dick...|||its verbal abuse which will really hurt her inside