A friend of mine told me yesterday that when he was visiting his cousin, she started yelling and screaming at her 8 month old son just because he was crying and he tried grabbing at his penis when she was trying to change his diaper. While she was yelling, she was calling him mean names. I am appalled by this! My friend said that he started talking to the baby and said he should take him home with him and guess what the baby's mother said? She said, yes, please take him with you and I will pick him up when he's 5 or 6!|||Sounds like the mom is just very stressed out. I don't think that last bit was said seriously, but more out of utter exhaustion. My husband has screamed at our 8 month old while he is crying. I am not condoneing it, and I always get into arguments over it with him, but some people simply can not handle the stress. Sounds like this woman needs to work on her patience.|||i would repport her. As for the please take him home and ill pick him up when he is 5 or 6, i joke like that whats wrong with that? Just sunday my mom said oh i want to take you home to my son and i said go for it ill pick him up when he is 5 sorry no return policy. Its not that big of a deal as long as she was joking. Some people may not agree with what i said but im just a humorus person i love to joke around. Andi would never do that because i love my son lol it was juts a joke.|||Very sad. Of course the baby is going to act out. If he lives in an unfriendly environment, he will cry like that. He's just being a baby! That woman needs to show him what it's like to be in a peaceful home, maybe he'll learn what it's like to be calm and peaceful. Poor baby.|||I have never seen this first hand, but someone needs to intervene. This sounds like a stressed out mom, that probably needs a little help. She could have P.P.D. someone should talk to her. Maybe offer to babysit every once in awhile so she can get out of the house. Not everyone handles parenting with ease.|||i dont think thats acceptable in my opinion.
hes only 8 months old poor lil thing
she is obviosly very stressed and needs a few hours break now and again
its not bad to need a break as it is stressfull but i dont believe in treating your baby like that
xx|||Sounds like she may need a break....that is horrible..and maybe your friend should ask her if she would like for him to take the baby for a few hours....I hate to say it but if she thinks she has it bad now just wait until he is 5 or 6....babies are so much easier...LOL|||Your friend might consider alerting DCFS. Too often emotional and verbal abuse becomes physical violence and this mother may need some intervention and parenting classes before things go too far.|||Hopefully she was just having a moment or showing off. I have never heard anyone do it personally but have heard stories.|||Sorry, She sounds crazy to me... Baby doesn't sound like he's in a safe environment. Makes me feel bad for him.|||I would call DCFS or something and make sure that baby is in a safe home|||I like Rosie's answer. My husband could not handle a crying baby AT ALL!! My daughter cried for the first 6 months of her life almost day %26amp; night %26amp; hardly slept. He always offered to get up %26amp; help, but less than 5 minutes into it he'd say "God, I can't do this. Get her away from me." We had many arguments about that one! But if she's doing this all the time, maybe someone should call CPS? I'd be afraid that she may take it too far one day? She, at the very least, needs to know the seriousness of her actions. Maybe they would make her take some kind of parenting class....not sure if that would help? Poor baby!!|||WTF is her problem! NO, she shouldnt be yelling at her 8mo. old baby. He doesnt know what he's doing wrong anyway. If he's grabbing at his penis crying while shes changing his diaper, well maybe his privates hurt. He could have a UTI. People like her should not have kids. That appalls me that a mother would treat her baby that way. I have a 2 month old and a 12 and 9 year old, and i NEVER would treat them like that. Yeah i get stressed out at times and my 2 older kids piss me off at times, but thats kids for you. Theres no reason to verbally abuse your own children like that. If she didnt want the baby in the first place then she should of kept her damn legs closed! Did she have the baby cuz it was the "cool" thing to be pregnant. People fail to realize that pregnancy brings a child that yes crys at times. Whatever, i better not run into this person on the street thats all i gotta say.
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